(A blog I wrote for an organization I volunteer at! It is very dear to me and worth sharing!)
This, reader, is derealization and depersonalization.
It has been over a year I have experienced derealization and depersonalization and sometimes, they last for weeks.
Majority of my day goes by sitting behind a glass observing my distorted surroundings or myself. Even as I am writing this, I feel like I am observing myself from the back and I know exactly how I look from behind. I have always felt like I am observing everything from a third person point of view, almost like an alien spying on the human world and every activity. My memories lack emotion and seem unreal. It feels like my memories aren’t mine and it is something from a movie, book, or imagination. During my episodes, time usually goes slow, voices seem hollow and my vision is foggy. I know I am going through an episode, but there is no way out of it. After the episode, I forget whatever I did during the episode.
I have taken this concern to my mental health professionals. They assumed stress as the main reason behind this and would probably change my medicines to help me out. My psychologist suggested stimulating my brain by using five senses to help me out of my episode. Stimulation can range from bubble bath, music to coloring a book. She suggested I engage in physical activities and continue with the techniques she taught me during CBT.
One of the best techniques to help derealization and depersonalization is mindfulness, which basically just means to be aware of your present and stimulate your brain. Here are few mindfulness techniques for when you have your episode:
- Touch something and focus on how they feel. Is it cold or hot? How is the texture?
- Find an object and identify it. What is it? What is the color? What do you use it for?
- Counting something in your room. Maybe you have a bookshelf or a lot of color pencils.
- Play a song. Who is the artist? What is the chorus? Do you know what this song is trying to convey?
- Start coloring. What color are you using? What color contrasts the color you are using?
Remember to keep your eyes moving and your brain working. Don’t continuously zone out on a single thought. Occupy your 5 senses! I usually carry stress toys, gum/candy and small perfumes. They help me stimulate my senses.
Meditation, therapy and medications are other options you have. Remember that these episodes can last for a few minutes and even months! Visit a professional if it lasts too long and/or interferes with your daily life.
Healing isn't linear and you are valid! <3 - Zephyr